Superman's Girlfriend is Super Lonely Because Superman is Super Busy

Superman has been busy lately. And I mean super busy.

And he leaves me feeling lonely most of the time.

If There's One Word I Need, The Word is Patience

Someday I would still have to leave.

Can't you foresee the repercussions then? Why are you still being complacent with the current circumstances and keep torturing me?

I'm not the only one with limbs. But most probably I am the only one with guts. Others may just don't have the balls, figuratively and literally.

And you, you are not only comfortable, but are also a cowardice. Coward enough to trust your own blood. And I, I have to bear the consequences.

SIGH.

Ubat Batuk Cap Ibu dan Anak

More often than not, a mother would think what she thinks is the best for the child. On the other hand, the child would have thought in contrary. And both would want to prove who's right.

When it is the case between a mother and her teenage daughter, I'm pretty sure that doesn't really matter. But when it involves a mother and her adult daughter, it always becomes a problem.

The daughter realizes there's a conflict of interest between two from different eras, and the mother feels strongly that her child should act according to her (the mom's) will.

Mothers can be very conservative. Because they want things flow their ways. When they don't, the blame is put on the children.

I don't know what kind of mother would I be.

As for now, I am going down under for real, and no one can object to it. Not even my mother.

Anak

Sejak akhir-akhir ini keinginan untuk mempunyai anak selepas berumah tangga nanti kian pudar. Ini berlaku setelah melihat realiti kepayahan membesarkan anak ditambah lagi dengan rintihan kenalan yang menjadi ibu bapa.

Kepudaran ini ditambah dengan perasaan anxiety yang tinggi dan self-esteem yang rendah. Tidak yakin dengan skill keibubapaan yang ada dalam diri. Can I even be a good mother to my future kids? If I were a mother what kind of mom would I be? Yang garang atau yang penyayang?

Takut. Serius takut. Dahlah I dah buat perjanjian dengan Superman yang semua najis-najis akan I yang cuci. Tak guna betul Superman. Awal-awal lagi dah pandai cari jalan keluar. Cis!

I takut membesarkan anak-anak dengan cara yang salah and in the end, the society will point its finger to me. All blames are put on my shoulder.

Na'uzubillah!

Superman kata jangan fikir banyak sangat. Anak itu anugerah Allah dan insya Allah akan murahkan rezeki kita. Well, itu boleh mengurangkan kerisauan sedikit.

Hmm, so can anyone convince me the blessing of having one's one child or share a joyous story of having one? Instead of bercerita tentang kepayahan membesarkan anak?

Tips to Become a Good Blogger

A celebrity blogger, whom I've been adoring for months is no longer my blogger idol.

Personally speaking, the trick to maintain your traffic feed daily is not to throw tantrum at your readers, and being emotional towards the sappy anonymous(es). Afterall, you can never have everyone agreeing with you. And you should never expect to be liked by all. Hence, the negative comments.

What you do is stay calm and respond professionally. It's best if you wish to ignore those comments entirely, should replying to them would only trigger more arguments.

What you shouldn't do is to make an entry condemning those people that you might regret later to the effect that you'd take it down. It's very unflattering to see after reading all your wise entries.

So, does anyone learn something today?

Hutang

Haihla manusia. Time bermesej tidak berintipati, laju je kau reply. Time mesej minta duit, tak berbalas pula. Time mesej minta pinjam wang, madah pujangga yang kau beri.

Now I want my damn money back!

What Happens in a Relationship, Stays in the Relationship

I know these aren't my bloody problems that really bother me at present, but I think it is wise for me to take an appropriate step to advise this certain group of emo Facebookers.

You see, we know there's ups and downs in relationships, be it with parents, children, spouses, boyfriends, friends, employers and whatnot. And we know to certain extend we can no longer tolerate with the misunderstandings and shortcomings.
However, you should never complain about it publicly especially at your Facebook status as everyone would have an access to have read that. Say you're the subject matter of the complaint; the mother- what do you think the readers might think of, reading such a ranting?

"Marah betul dengan parents aku ni. Janji lain, buat lain."

For heaven's sake, keep that to yourself, would you? Or your trusted buddy?

Paling tak boleh tahan bila gaduh dengan boyfriend/girlfriend, pergi letak di status, mencemuh sesama sendiri. This, I malas nak elaborate. Haish.

Sudah-sudahlah dengan your public whining. Cukuplah membuka pekung di dada sendiri, jangan jadikan Facebook tempat umpatan pula. Tak pasal-pasal orang lain kena baca sekali.

Hujan Emas Di Negara Orang

Since I was much younger, I had always wanted to study abroad. Especially in the West. Or Europe. Or negara mat saleh lah orang kita kata.

Mostly it was because I don't wanna work there, and building my life there. Thus, having a few years experience in overseas should suffice.

But that didn't happen as I ended up graduating from a local university, one of the best in Malaysia. Until then, I still have the urge to study elsewhere, anywhere but Malaysia, as for the postgraduate program.

Many things had occurred lately to the effect that my dreams and perception have changed. I don't think I would wanna leave my family and loved ones behind for years. Hence what I have in mind is to make a lot of money so that I'm able to travel anywhere I want with my earnings. The best part is I can tag them along.

Imagine going abroad without any worries. Imagine having a thick pocket while travelling. Imagine doing the things you want with your loved ones.

And I'm ensuring you that day will come. Because do I wanna be a gorgeous, hot looking billionaire some day. It's not either or, cause I am proving all.

Fira Satorini, Greece, I shall come and conquer you one day!

Resolusi Hari Jadi

Saya mahu jadi lebih positif, in the sense that I'm not going to make other people's problem as mine.

Lantaklah you nak tulis grammar broken or you nak jadi annoyingly corny in the public. Just don't over react.

Let they live the way they want. So long that it doesn't disrupt mine, why bother?

It serves much tranquility living without loathe and hatred. It feels more calming observing with peace.

So let's stop condemning and start loving. Or even if you can't, ignore.

Birthday Sayang

Superman: Why did you say I ruined your birthday night?

Moi: Ah, forget about last night. We both were being emotional. Especially me.

Superman: Happy birthday.

Moi: Thank you so much, sayang.

Superman: Thank you who?

Moi: Er, thank you so much, awak.

Superman: No no no. What did you say again?

Moi: Thank you so much, ayam!

Superman: Kok kokokokok!

Moi: *burst into laughter* I love you, sayang.

Superman: I love you too, cintaku.

Gender Bias

You're trying to say, because I am a damn girl, I have to be extra hardworking as compared to the boys in the house? What is this, a gender-bias?

Didn't I act enough like the sole man of the house already?

Let me be specific;
It's not okay for a girl to abandon what a girl should be doing though she has done everything that a guy should've been doing.
But it's totally okay for a guy to abandon what he is suppose to do because it has been taken over by a girl.

Conclusion: Girl must do everything. Boy can do nothing.

NICE!

Bukan berkira ke apa, but isn't the bias-ness getting too obvious from day to day?

Now you are calling me what? A superhero?

I am NOT! I'm just a girlfriend.

His Boring Girlfriend

Moi: Don't you find me boring?

Superman: No, why?

Moi: Because I don't listen to music like you, nor do I enjoy going to cinemas. I'm not like many girls out there. I sit at home reading and writing and thinking.

Suoerman: Yup, you sure do. That's why I love you so much.

Moi: Really?

Superman: :)

Seksi Sopan

Kalau perempuan pakai baju seksi, itu tidak sopan.

Kalau lelaki pakai seluar sengaja menampakkan boxer, itu apa?

Telur Goreng

I bukan sengaja nak tunjuk kuat ke apa. Masalahnya, kalau I nak jadi lembik sebab sakit pun, tak ada manusia yang sepatutnya peduli dan ambil tindakan, peduli dan ambil tindakan.

I ni satu-satunya anak perempuan, tapi yang lelaki-lelaki semua tak bertanggung jawab aje. I am almost swearing right now I tell you.

Time dia orang sakit I bawa pergi klinik, time I sakit, I pun bawa diri I sendiri.

Bukan nak berkira ke apa, tapi dia orang tu dah hilang sense of responsibility ke?

Kalau nak bermanja ke nak lembik-lembik ketika sakit ke, I akan tunggu boyfriend I ada. Masa tu baru rasa macam ada adik beradik lelaki.

And for your information, I am NOT the eldest.

Shocking, huh?

Luck

Usually when someone wishes me luck for my exam, I'd respond;

"I need no luck. I just need a pen and a brain."

But in the end I realized I really, badly need that damn luck.

*sigh*

"Dah Kata Dah"

No, seriously. You don't want to hear me saying those words. It's a bad sign afterall.

Don't you ever let me utter them.

Technology Kills

Blackberry is one capital offender under s. 300 of the Penal Code and punishable under s. 302.

He murdered my love for books and reading ruthlessly.

Now I no longer carry a book to bed, not to the loo. I'd be online from this small screen nights and days leaving my stacks of books elsewhere.

And guess what?

Currently I'm standing in my pink bathroom making this entry.

Where are my books again?

Secularism

This is funny.

I am being called secular for a humble political opinion I made.

I must have been oblivious or something. So tell me politely which part did I say wrong?

I'm No Dumb. I'm Just Numb

I may be vibrant and cheerful, but I'm no talkative. I only talk when it's necessary. But at times, though the situation requires me to speak, I'd still become numb.

I don't hell know where has the friendly me gone. It has been my resolution each year since I was 9 to be less talkative and now I believe God has granted my yearly wish. Heh.

By talkative, I strictly confine the meaning to being friendly and able to create a warm and comfortable conversation, and relationship for that matter.

The change doesn't bring much benefit, I'd dare to say, especially when I am faced with the future in-laws. I was ultimately quiet, probably because I didn't know what to say, act and ask. Probably because Superman has shared many stories about his family beforehand.

Sheesh. Now I have this peculiar feeling that the future in-laws don't quite fancy my attitude. They must've thought I am one snobbish brat from the city.

On the other hand, his little sister was extremely pretty and warm and is getting married in a couple of months time!!!

What am I thinking now, seriously?